My Only Hope Is In You

by | Jul 2, 2015 | Christin's Blog Posts, Virtual VBS for GrownUp Girls

“So each generation should set its hope anew on God, not forgetting His glorious miracles and obeying His commands.” Psalm 78:7

Do you know what it means to hope?

These days we use the word “hope” as a synonym for the word “wish” — as if they mean the same thing. Hope, wish, dream. An unrealized (and often unrealistic) desire for something. But while the dictionary defines “wish” as merely “desire” or “want,” the definition of hope is different. Hope is a desire based on “the confident expectation of receiving what is desired.”

If you hope for something, it’s because you not only want it to happen, you believe and expect it will. You not only want to receive it, you believe you will. You’re just waiting for it to happen.

Sometimes in life our hopes are misplaced. And then we’re disappointed, because the things we hope for don’t come true. We’ve looked for hope in all the wrong places. Trusted in all the wrong things, the wrong people. (Even ourselves!)

But the hope described in the Bible is a living hope, a confident hope, an assured hope, a blessed hope, an eternal hope. Our hope is in “the God of Hope” (Rom 15:13) who keeps His promises. We don’t always understand His plan… why He allows some things and not others, why He intervenes sometimes and not others, how He chooses to move in the hearts and lives of those around us.

But the more we get to know Him, the more we trust Him. The more we see that He knows what He’s doing… and it really is all working together. (Rom 8:28)

When life gets hard, we don’t have to put our heads down and just push through it… or curl up in the fetal position and hide. We can take a deep breath, relax, and let Him lead. Lift our heads, and look around us, as we take one step at at time. And hold tight to His hand.

My only hope is in you

If you’re participating in our online summer Bible study,  Virtual VBS for GrownUp Girls: Holding on to Hope… When Life Is Hard, this week we’re reading 1 Peter 1:3-2:12, 1 Peter 4:12-19, and 1 Peter 5:8-11.

Go back through each passage with the highlighter function on your e-reader, or in a journal or notebook, or on the back of a napkin — hey, whatever works — and make three lists: 

  • What God has given to us or promised us or reassured us (ex: our trials will refine our faith, bring Him glory)
  • What we are “To Do” (ex: prepare your minds for action)
  • What we are “NOT To Do” (ex: conform to the evil desires of the past)

In some cases it will be simpler to summarize the concept, and in others just to use the words and phrases as they appear.

The easy response at this point would be to think, “Wow, this is really good stuff. Hmm… Amen! The Church needs to hear this! Yes!” And if you’re feeling really inspired, to post a few verses as your Facebook status.

But let’s go a little deeper. I’d like to challenge you to do two more things:

1. Look over that list of things God has given you / promised you (YOU, not just “us”) and let it sink in. Really think about it — and then respond in a SPECIFIC way. A specific way to you, that is. You could… spend some time in praise and worship during your daily quiet time, saying the words or singing them. Or writing them as a prayer or love letter or poem. Go for a walk in nature, and spend the time talking to Him. Or make something for Him. Or do something you know He loves — on behalf of someone He loves. However you do it, find a way, take a moment, to genuinely express your gratitude.

2. Prayerfully look over the “To Do” and “NOT To Do” list, and ask God to show you specifically one thing that you personally can do “To Do” or “NOT Do” something on the list. In other words, something in your own life you need to work on, something that will help you stand firm or press on or rejoice or not grow weary or discouraged or hold on to hope! There may be a lot of things you see, but ask Him to help you start with one.

A lot of women, for example, have committed to spending time in the Word before they go online — before they check email and social media, and get inundated with all the negativity and the drama and the need and the distraction, which can be so overwhelming.

But it could be something very different for you. Maybe there’s some other habit or activity you need to look at, an attitude or a relationship you need to reconsider….

Hope Anne Lamott

Don’t forget for more tips on getting the most out of your Bible reading, see Five Simple Ways to Focus on the Words You Read

And if you haven’t already, click to download our free Memory Verse PrintablesThis week’s verse is 1 Timothy 4:10. It’s on our VBS Pinterest board.

As you’ve been reading this week’s passages, anything jump out at you? Anything you’ve been thinking about that you’d like to share?